Experiencing a separation or divorce?
We're here to help you take practical steps to protect your finances and set you up for success following a separation. Below you'll find some of the key money matters to consider - the information can apply to anyone, regardless of who you bank with.
For ASB customers, we've included some handy links to other pages on our website with more information and step-by-step guides for each action.
For a shorter, printable version of the information below, check out our Separation and Divorce Checklist.
Privacy and security
Make sure nobody else can access your accounts by changing your PIN numbers and passwords for:
- Any debit or credit cards
- Internet banking or mobile banking apps
- Laptops, tablets or mobile phones that you may have shared a password for
- Any apps or email accounts where payment information might be stored, e.g. Your Google or Apple account.
If someone else has access to your card or your card details, or has had in the past:
- You may want to cancel your card(s) and order a new one.
Check your address details
- Do you need to update your address?
- Important: If you update your address on a joint account, the other account holder may be able to view your address. If you’re unsure or want support, reach out to your bank.
If you change your address on a joint account but later undo this change because of privacy concerns, keep in mind that your address may still show up on past statements available online. If this is a concern, contact us as soon as possible.
Ensure other people cannot access your accounts by removing unfamiliar devices.
If you have ever logged into your mobile banking or internet banking from someone else’s phone, tablet or computer, it may have saved your details so you might want to remove devices.
Download statements for all your accounts.
You can do this via internet banking for most banks, or by contacting your bank directly. During separation proceedings, you may need proof of your bank account balances for the purpose of dividing assets.
Individual accounts and access to money
Do you have your own day-to-day transaction account, in your name?
If not, consider opening a transaction account to provide yourself with a level of financial independence separate from any joint accounts.
Consider which account your wages or any benefits are paid into.
For example, is your income currently being paid into a joint account, where someone else can access your funds? Contact your employer or benefit provider if you need to update this.
Check for upcoming payments out of your account(s) and consider moving them to a different account if needed.
If you’re changing the account that your income goes into, or taking on bill-paying responsibilities, check that payments are set up to come out of an appropriate account.
You might like to check:
- Any automatic payments you have set up.
- What direct debits are coming out of your account and change (via the provider), cancel or delete as required
- Future dated or recurring transfers between your accounts.
- Any bills or subscriptions. If you’re an ASB customer, Card Tracker can help you see what’s going in and out of your account.
Remove additional card holders from accounts where applicable.
This is where someone else has a card attached to your account. If you bank with ASB, you’ll need to call our Contact Centre on 0800 255 382 or visit an ASB branch.
Other things to think about
Make copies of all important documentation
For example, house documents like the title, lending agreements, mortgage statements, statements of investments, a copy of your KiwiSaver balance, and any tax return statements where applicable. You may need certain documents during separation proceedings.
Update any joint insurance policies and consider setting up your own policies in your name
This might include Health insurance, Life insurance or Car insurance etc. Usually, insurance policies will need agreement from any other person on the account to make any updates or cancellations to a policy.
To contact us about an insurance policy you hold with ASB, refer to our Insurance page.
Review your Will and/or Power of Attorney where relevant and consider making updates.
Download our Separation and Divorce Checklist
For a shorter, printable version of the information above, download a copy of our Separation and Divorce Checklist.
Need help?
If you’re an ASB customer, the sooner you talk to us, the earlier we can review options to support you and help you get back on track. If you’re worried about the safety or privacy of your banking or would like to book a Financial Wellbeing Review, reach out to us as soon as possible.
If your separation or divorce impacts your ability to meet ongoing financial commitments, find out how our Financial Assistance team can help.